Monday 7 May 2012

No Entry

There are few types of people who are no entry in my life. But few people whom you can't avoid, its better to be silent when you were with them. Am one of the most talkative girl in school and college days but after i grew and get matured i became silent and started observing people and then make the next move. Still i pray for patience to God everyday, which i really really lag...:)

I thought i could make a list of people whom i avoid or hate,
  • People who talk behind while being nice in front of you.
  • People who keep self-praising about themselves while not paying a min to listen about you.
  • People who keep a fake identity about themselves or about their family, not really true or speaking the fact.
  • People whom discourage or affect my self-esteem, you know it really affects self confidence.
  • People who poke your heart in the way of teasing or making fun.
  • People who are not spending money (kanjus) yet they have plenty of money.
  • People who feel jealous and not liking others growth and cursing them.
  • People who talk unnecessarily..(putting blade).     
I know its hard everyone to be a perfect human being but still i got my own tolerance level or limit
to manage with these kinds of people day to day life. I guess everybody must have their experience
with any of these kinds..so what's your reaction?how do you tackle it?..need your feedback...
                              

Wednesday 2 May 2012

Facebook


I guess many people have their different kinds of opinion about this FACEBOOK, am here to give my own opinions pros and cons.Facebook is one of the top social networking site, where everyone from youth to uncles & aunties addicted to. As a optimistic person, am not unhappy to be addicted to Facebook, yes i enjoy it and it has nothing to interfere with my personal life. Its like a classroom with all your friends and families, getting updates on their lives and their pictures at important occasions in their life. Many people share their happiness,best moments,only few share their regrets or sad parts. Its not easy to keep in contact with everyone but this networking site brings all friends together from different parts of the world. Just imagine like our parents who miss their best buddies and don't have contact with other, accidentally when they meet in functions, sharing only few things due to time constraint. Am happy to live in this present century with all luxuries and amenities.

I also wonder people with 700+ friends in Facebook, is it really possible to keep in contact with everyone. Add friends or family whom you really care about or friends, there is no use in adding a person whom you have spent only few mins in college or workplace. Another biggest mistake people do is they get subscribed to celebrities or TV shows or Movie reviews, only if you are truly interested or active it is wise otherwise its a just a waste of time in looking their useless updates.

Facebook addiction has started to spread more violently than any other networking sites, from malls,coffee shops to airport, everybody checks for Facebook updates.And i could see many people checking every hour or even mins for the updates and getting more likes for your photos or comments is becoming another trend. And another productive thing about Facebook is getting hot news immediately(as noone is going to keep track of news whole day) and its also a discussion arena about any topics.One good option i love in Facebook is deactivating and activating option as sometimes when i get really bored or less active i deactivate it and then activate it when i miss it.

Ok lemme come to the point,its bad until you get deeper into that..as some people spend more time into Facebook more than spending with near and dear ones..that's really bad and it really hurts.I always make sure i spend my leisure time in these sites and enjoy it.
Another important thing, never post messages which hurt others or someone personally and people who are sensitive never get hurted for stupid things posted in Facebook.


So friends what you think about Facebook, voice your opinions and badly in need of feedbacks :-)